Have you ever had a tooth pulled?

I experienced that for the first time recently. It's no fun though the tooth needed to come out, so I'm glad that it did. What was worse was the pain that preceded it. If you've ever had the sharp pain that shoots up through your head from a toothache, then you know the exact feeling. 

In life we all have experienced pain. We have these particular pain-points, and we do or purchase different things to get rid of the pain..

​We buy certain products or subscribe to services because they help us solve a problem. We may have a Netflix subscription because of the low-cost price and it serves our entertainment needs. We may subscribe to a service that delivers us meals or groceries on a weekly basis to save us the pain of going to the store or because we don't have the time to go shopping. 

We workout because we want to solve multiple pain-points: feeling better about ourselves, improving our health, training for a specific event, just to name a few. 

Makes sense? We have a certain pain and our solution to the pain is a painkiller (not the kind you may be thinking...you know those at the pharmacy....don't get any ideas).

The problem we have a lot of times is that we aren't able to identify these particular pain-points. We know that there is a pain that needs to be addressed, but we don't know exactly what it is. If we don't know what it is, then we aren't able to know what will kill that pain. 

You know that exercising is good for you, but why exactly are you exercising? Your reason for exercising may be completely different than those in your household. You need to know what your exact pain-point is so that you know the specific painkiller(s) needed to destroy that pain once and for all. 

Need to know what your painkiller is for your pain-point? Do you need help finding out what that pain-point is? 

Let's chat. Email me at vandie@vanbarfitness.com and simply reply with "What's my painkiller?"

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​BE GREATER

About 3 years ago after completing a leg day workout and sipping on my protein shake, I started to look around the gym as I cooled down. I saw members finishing up their BodyPump class, some getting after it on the treadmills, others taking selfies of themselves in the mirror and I thought to myself how awesome it was that we have access to all this. 

How great it was to be able to relieve stress, to be able to exercise with family and friends, to be able to better yourself physically, mentally. Then I thought about all those that don't have that ability to go to a gym (pre-pandemic). 

Whether it may be because of location, finances, family commitments, or other reasons. In that moment I thought about how easily I was able to access the gym at any time, any day of the week and get my workout in. I thought about how much I love doing so. There are those that really do want to workout, they want to leave the excuses behind, but can't.

Today working out takes on many different forms, it doesn't just have to be in the gym. That was part of the premise behind the birth of Vanbar. It was too ensure that everyone, no matter where they are and no matter their circumstance had some access to working out or coaching. 

Help me in reaching those that don't have that access, that want to better themselves. That want to be greater versions of themselves. Help me in spreading the message. Help me to let them know they aren't alone. They have help. They have their coach. 

If you know of anyone, if that may be you yourself, let me know. Email me at vandie@vanbarfitness.com and reply simply with 'I'm Ready!'. I look forward to speaking with you. 

Follow me on Facebook at Vanbar Fitness and on Instagram @vanbarfitness. Let's spread the word.

As always...

​BE GREATER!

With everything that has been going on, are you finding it hard to stay positive? Hopeful? 

Here are some strategies that you can use right now to help you stay positive.

Check it out below in this audio message. 

Are you stuck in a rut with your workouts from home? Sometimes a change in scenery or slight changes can make all the difference. 

Here are some things you can try: 

-Go for a walk/run
-Gardening or cutting the grass (if you're into those hobbies)
-Try adding in family members into your workout (create a little challenge). 
-Workout with family/friends over video call and challenge each other. 

These can make all the difference keeping motivation going for your workouts. Give it a try!

What do the soul and body have to do with each other? A lot. 

First what is our soul? We can easily identify what our body is. It's our physical self. It's our muscles, our limbs, our bones. Our soul is our mind, will, and emotions. Our soul is our character, our feelings, our intellect. And the two have so much in common. 

Let's take working out for example. When we are nearing the end of a tough workout, our body is fatigued, gassed, and ready to give up. Ready to stop. However our body may still have something left in the tank. That is where our soul comes in. Our mind can communicate to our body to push through those last few reps or to hold that sprint for just another 10 seconds, to push through and finish our workout. 

It is in moments such as those where our soul and body work in harmony. If there is a major disconnect between the two, then we are leaving a lot of stones unturned. There are workouts that aren't completed, or never started. There are tasks that don't get done. There are projects we are supposed to complete today that we tell ourselves can wait until tomorrow.

We must train our soul to to be strong and diligent. How? 

Through prayer, through meditation, through reflection. Through deciding to make a choice that today is going to be better than yesterday. That today you will be greater than you were yesterday. 

That's how. 

​Be Greater!

Have you ever worked so hard and so much to reach a workout goal? Or to reach an ideal weight or figure to match someone you've seen on TV? 

It's alright if you have. Be honest with yourself. 

Don't get me wrong, it's okay to have a workout goal, and to work diligently to get there. What is wrong is trying to be something or someone you're not. It becomes a problem when your entire workout program is built on you trying to be like someone else. 

It's a trap. Don't fall for it. 

For those that have achieved that "goal", when you have sculpted yourself to look like that person on TV, how did it feel?

Was there something still missing? Did you still feel a sense of emptiness?

Theres' a reason for that. You are more than just a body. You are more than just a physical specimen. 

Whether you want to believe it or not, you are also a spiritual being. 

Again, nothing wrong with wanting to look a certain way. However, don't base that off of someone else. Achieve it for you. That way when you do reach your goal, you don't feel incomplete. 

Working out is for more than just the physical aspect. Your fitness is tied to your inner self, your spirit. When you feed your spirit and body at the same time, reaching that goal seems much more meaningful. You become more effective in reaching that goal. You feel that much better because you're making a greater and lasting impact on the inside and outside. 

Don't workout for vain pursuits. It doesn't lead to anything worthwhile. In fact, it may leave you worse off. 

Workout for a purpose that is defined by you, not anyone else. 

We're all unique individuals with differing opinions, but one thing I think we can all agree on is that quarantine life sucks! For me, not being able to see family or friends in person is probably the most draining aspect of it all. 

But there has been some good to come out of it, and that's time to reset and refresh. If you haven't looked at it that way or haven't had a chance to breath, I urge you to do so. Take a second and pause, and relax. 

Did you do so? Great!

Now, one productive thing we can do with this time is set goals. Evaluate goals that you made and see if you need to tweak them or if you're on the right track. Establish new goals. Think of things you never thought you could accomplish and set a goal for it no matter how insurmountable it may appear to be. You never know unless you try! 

​When we set a goal then reach it, it’s a great feeling. You feel good inside, maybe even pat yourself on the back for a job well done. On the flip side, when we set a goal and don’t reach it, the feeling isn’t so good. We all have different ways of how we deal with a failed goal. Some of us brush it off and set another goal, while a failed goal for some may result in resisting to pursue another.


Here are two things I want you to understand as you set those goals: 

1. You will set goals 
2. Some goals you will accomplish, others you won’t 

For the ones you accomplish, great! For the ones you don’t, so what? Move on to the next one. It’s not the end of the world. It doesn’t matter in what arena you set a goal in, be it fitness, professional, or some form of personal goal, your duty is to give it your best effort. As long as you do that, whatever the outcome may be, just live with it. It is what it is. No use in harping over the failures. Learn from what happened and move on. 


Sometimes with our goals, we set them to be out of reach, unrealistic, or unattainable, and set ourselves up for failure. 


Whatever your goal is, whether it is small or large, develop a plan of action. You may have heard of the acronym SMART coined by Peter Drucker. It stands for:


Specific - simple, sensible  
Measurable - indicator of progress, motivating 
Achievable - attainable 
Realistic - state what results can be achieved, given available resources 
Time-related - specify when the result, or results, can be achieved 


This is a great way to break down your goals, and ensure that you are setting yourself up for success. 


Let’s learn from our mistakes, and limit our failures. Make sure we put ourselves in the best position to accomplish as much as we can. Let’s begin to raise the bar.


Be Greater!

What's the best time to workout? 

In one of our previous posts we discussed that the best time to workout is whatever time is best for you. 

Now with having to be confided to the comforts of our home for the time being and not being able to go to the gym (if you do workout at the gym), your routine is probably all out of wack. 

So what do we do about this? 

By now you've switched to home workouts to keep yourself going. I suggest doing your workouts as early in the day as possible if you can. 

Doing your workouts earlier in the day will release endorphins and give you more energy as you go throughout the rest of your day. 

Your workout will be done and out the way so you don't have to think about squeezing it in later in the day. If unexpected tasks or distractions come up during the day, you don't have sacrifice your workout. It'll already be done! 

This may be a challenge at first if you're not used to it, but our bodies are good at adapting. We're creatures of habit. By establishing a pattern, after a few weeks it'll become a habit. 

Give it a try, and comment on the impact it has on you! 

I want to go back and revisit a post from two years ago about consistency. Especially in these times, I think it's an important topic. We can all agree that when it comes to getting something down pat, to make something a habit, it's about consistency. 

​It's the Consistency Factor. And when we create a pattern, a pattern that is for our good, it'll take a whole lot to break us out of that pattern. 

If you've always wanted to get into a workout routine, but felt that you didn't have the time, now is as good a time as ever to begin your pattern of working out. 

Some tips on getting started: take it easy and keep it simple. 

Don't try to workout every day of the week and jump to 1 hour workouts. 

Start with 2 or 3 days and for 20-30 minutes for those days. All you're trying to do right now is to build a pattern, make it a habit. 

Go for a walk a few days out of the week. It's a nice simple workout if you are just getting started with your workout journey. 

For my intermediate and advanced readers, you can use some of the objects that are right in your home. 

Place a chair behind you to do sets of squats. Walk up and down your stairs about 3 times. You'll be surprised how quick you feel the burn. 

Working out can still happen. It's all about if you want to make it happen. And if you do, there is no magic pill, no drawn out secret, it's just a matter of consistency.